A person may know most of the things and can be very knowledgeable,may analyse matters with much efficiency,may be smart and intelligent but then,once she/he falls in love,they become dumb fools and all the knowledge and reasoning goes into the drain.The partner who is more in love is in a weaker position as they willingly accept everything the other partner does.They may crib,complain and even cry silently helplessly when the other partner does things which may seem unacceptable to them and as the other partner gleefully manipulates things keep going.This goes on for a long time and then the mind starts working n questioning, what the fuck is wrong ani.Once the mind starts working there is anger and more anger,all the pain,hurt emerges and the supprssed frustration takes over,and love becomes secondary and takes a back seat.And then there is a obvious breakup.There is a lesson to be learnt.People should never commit themselves to a relationship when they are not serious.And when they are not serious,they shouldnot be pulling the other person into the relationship.They dont have the right to make the other person suffer,ruin or play with somebody else's life.The world is full of people who are not so serious about love.If people can choose their own type,that will get things running smoothly.Even if it is a breakup,there is not much hurt and pain on both sides.And yes Be very CAREFUL when u fall in love with a person.
when i was a kid about ten years old,i was studying in st.anns primary school.being a christian missionary school we would say a prayer about jesus christ.everybody would close their eyes and say the our father in heaven holy be your name prayer,it happened one day i opened my eyes and read this quote written on the wall,my obsession with quotes,words and inspiration.it goes like this"for god so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son,that whosoever believeth in him shouldnot perish but have an everlasting life".i dint know the meaning back then.when everybody said the prayer and later laughed and talked.i kept reading the quite on the wall,trying to understand it.few years later when my english was way much better and my faith strong in god,i actually understood the meaning.
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